How to Stay Positive in the Face of Death.
Comedian Joe E. Lewis once quipped that “you only live once – but if you work it right, once is enough.”
As we grow older, we tend to reflect on our lives and question whether we’ve lived them to the fullest. This can be especially true as we begin to lose long-time friends or family members. When those who are closest to us pass away, it is inevitable for us to think about our own mortality in a way we may not have previously done. It also can lead to depression, which in turn can cause other health issues.
Does that mean we shouldn’t think about death, even when we’re confronted with it more frequently? Not at all. In fact, coming to terms with death is a necessary developmental challenge for seniors; however, it doesn’t mean we should dwell on it.
So how do we stay positive during a time when we may be losing beloved friends and family members? Continue reading
Tips for Communicating End-of-Life Wishes.
American science fiction author Frank Herbert once said, “There is no real ending. It’s just the place where you stop the story.”
Death is not a pleasant topic to discuss, and the ability to do so does not improve with age. In fact, the older we get, the more uncomfortable it can be to talk openly and honestly about what is inevitably waiting for each and every one of us.
However, the failure to communicate end-of-life wishes can be a costly one. According to information from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, most people would prefer to die at home – yet only a third of adults have an advance directive expressing that desire.
What is an Advance Directive?
An advance care directive, also known as an end-of-life plan, is a legal document which details provisions for an individual’s future healthcare decisions should they become mentally or physically incapacitated. There are two main types of directives: a living will and a durable power of attorney for health care. Continue reading
Learn the Benefits of End-of-Life Planning.
When thinking of going on a vacation, we plan every detail of our getaway down to the last minute. We know where we’ll stay, what activities we plan to engage in and even how we’re going to get there. And chances are, we even know how we plan to pay for it all. So why would we put any less effort into planning our needs for the final stages of our lives?
Yet end-of-life planning is not a phrase that any of us likes to hear, let alone find ourselves saying out loud. However, it has become an important part of the aging and retirement process, and regardless of whether thinking about your death makes you uncomfortable, it is a step in the process that really should not be avoided for your own good, and the good of your family. Continue reading